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The Curious Case of Misquotation

Update 11/07/14: We have gotten more responses to this blog entry, than any other blog entry we have ever written. The most recent commenter writes: “It’s from a letter Fitzgerald wrote to his daughter, Scottie.” I just looked through Scott Fitzgerald’s Letters to His Daughter, and I couldn’t find any such quotation. Although there are some lovely tidbits of advice! Here is one such tidbit, as he asks his daughter about the man that interested her when she was eighteen. The letter is dated August 24, 1940.:

“You haven’t given me much idea of __________. Would he object to your working—outside the house I mean? Excluding personal charm, which I assume, and the more conventional virtues which go with success in business, is he his own man? Has he any force of character? Or imagination and generosity? Does he read books? Has he any leaning toward the arts and sciences or anything beyond creature comfort and duck-shooting? In short, has he the possibilities of growth that would make a lifetime with him seem attractive? These things don’t appear later—they are either there latently or they will never be there at all.”


Heavens to Murgatroyd, I’ve come across another faux quotation on the Internet. Actually in this case, it was actually a quotation that a friend of mine posted (not knowing putting up faux quotations in front of a Reference Librarian is like putting a red flag in front of a bull). Trouper that she is, she was happy to correct the attribution once I explained the details.

This was the quote as she wrote it:

“For what it’s worth: it’s never too late or, in my case, too early to be whoever you want to be. There’s no time limit, stop whenever you want. You can change or stay the same, there are no rules to this thing. We can make the best or the worst of it. I hope you make the best of it. And I hope you see things that startle you. I hope you feel things you never felt before. I hope you meet people with a different point of view. I hope you live a life you’re proud of. If you find that you’re not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again.”

And it was attributed to F. Scott Fitzgerald.

Well, it didn’t sound exactly like F. Scott Fitzgerald to me, so I thought I’d investigate. As it turned out my friend believed that it was a quotation from Fitzgerald’s short story “The Curious Case of Benjamin Button”. Happily we had a copy of the short story on the shelf … no such quotation in the story.

So … where else might it be? Well, I knew there had been a movie, and I found a copy of the screenplay. Here is the quotation I found:

“For what it’s worth … it’s never too late, or in my case too early, to be whoever you want to be. There’s no time limit. Start whenever you want. You can change or stay the same. There are no rules to this thing. We can make the best or the worst of it. I hope you make the best of it. I hope you see things that startle you. I hope you feel things you never felt before. I hope you meet people who have a different point of view. I hope you live a life you’re proud of, and if you’re not, I hope you have the courage to start all over again.”

The screenplay for the film was written by a fellow named Eric Roth, so I think it is safe to say that he wrote these lines. (Although my favorite attribution of the quote is Brad Pitt ... because he said the lines, so he must have written them? ) You’ll notice there are some differences between even these two quotations … the most significant being the word strength substituted for the word courage. But guess what … Brad Pitt actually says the word strength when he says the line … so did he make the change or did someone on the set make the change? Even with a straightforward quote, there seem to always be questions. Want to see Brad Pitt say the lines? You can see that on Youtube.

Just another cautionary tale … don’t believe everything you read on the Internet! (And if you want to read about a faux E. B. White quotation you can read my blog entry here.)

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1. Aimee | Thu, Apr 7, 2016 at 12:22 pm

I’m so glad to have found this page but a little sad too.  I have always loved that quote, the story by Fitzgerald, and the movie.  This quote makes me think of my father and I had planned to use it during his upcoming memorial service.  Still love the quote though, and the feelings it evokes.

2. Jill | Fri, Mar 25, 2016 at 3:01 pm

Gregory, Great catch! Fixed!


3. Gregory Feeley | Fri, Mar 25, 2016 at 11:31 am

Great catch, but when you write, “Trooper that she is, she was happy to correct the attribution once I explained the details,” you misspell “trouper.”

(Different words, different spellings.)

4. Jill | Mon, Mar 21, 2016 at 10:09 am

Hi Paula, I can’t tell you how happy your comment makes me! It also amazes & delights me that people are still tracking down this blog entry. Hope you found a suitable Fitzgerald quote for your daughter. Jill

5. Paula | Sat, Mar 19, 2016 at 8:19 am

Thank you so much for this blog.  I was about to buy this quote on Etsy for my daughter who is graduating this May with a literary studies degree.  I decided to make sure it was Fitzgerald and came across your comments.  I’ll try to find her another one that it truly Fitzgerald.

6. Jill | Mon, Feb 22, 2016 at 2:37 pm

A belated thanks to both Allison and Brian for their appreciation of this blog entry. It is such a pleasure to know that people are still reading this blog!


7. Allison | Wed, Feb 17, 2016 at 2:11 pm

This has ALWAYS driven me NUTS!!! I see it credited to Fitzgerald ALL THE TIME, and with him being my favorite author and Curious Case of Benjamin Button being one of my favorite movies, I have always known it’s not actually a quote by him. Glad to see others are on the same page!

8. Brian | Wed, Dec 30, 2015 at 10:39 pm

Great quote!

Thank you for the time you spent researching and sharing your findings.

I see misquotations fairly often on the internet, I suppose ultimately it is the message that matters, not the author. Although, I am also a Database Admin and responsible for data integrity, so I do value setting the record straight!

9. Jill | Mon, Dec 21, 2015 at 12:54 pm

Hi Tanya, You are most welcome! I always appreciate people finding this page & love your comment! Working on a new blog post right now based on a highly quoted Margaret Mead quotation. Jill

10. Tanya Charbury | Thu, Dec 17, 2015 at 5:35 pm

I love how you handled this. Facts—what a concept. Seriously, thank you.

11. Megan | Mon, Aug 3, 2015 at 12:37 pm

I loved this quote and am now so bummed.  Our FCCLA chapter wanted an inspiring F. Scott Fitzgerald quote to go with our “The Great FCCLA” theme using FSF and the roaring 20s.  Even though we loved it we will continue our search for the perfect quote.  Thank you for the information.

12. Catherine | Thu, Jul 30, 2015 at 12:40 pm

Am I the only one bothered by the sketchy grammar?

13. Jane Gibson | Fri, Jul 24, 2015 at 6:46 pm

Thank you for this article. I love this quote and will now attribute it to the correct author.

14. Jill | Wed, Jul 22, 2015 at 2:40 pm

Thanks so much Craig & Jin for your comments on this post. It continues to be our most active blog post! We are delighted that people are still finding it, and thanks Jin for letting us know you love our library! We do too!

15. Jin | Wed, Jul 22, 2015 at 1:58 pm

I, too, saw this on facebook as a Fitzgerald quote and wanted to double-check the source. Thank you for your sleuthing, and for the correct attribution! P.S. We love the Falmouth library!

16. Craig Smith | Thu, Apr 2, 2015 at 2:21 pm

Librarians rock!

17. Jill | Thu, Mar 26, 2015 at 1:56 pm

Thanks, Jody! One of our favorite quotes (although we don’t know where it started!) is “Librarians the original search engines.”

18. jody | Tue, Mar 24, 2015 at 10:03 am

Librarians are my superheroes & this post proves why. The Fitzgerald-as-perky-life-coach quote is doing the rounds again...so thank you so much for steering us towards the correct green light!

19. Another Wheaton IL reader | Tue, Mar 10, 2015 at 3:19 pm

Another reader from Wheaton who googled the supposed Fitzgerald quote - thanks so much for posting this!

20. Jill | Tue, Mar 10, 2015 at 10:08 am

A belated thanks to Wheaton, IL, Elaine, Kelli, and Trudy for all of your comments. I really love that this blog entry is still saving a few people from misquoting Fitzgerald!

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